The new 'monstrous' personality type: 'Dark empaths' are even more dangerous than narcissists, say experts. DR SARAH DAVIES reveals how to know if you're being manipulated by one

New 'Monstrous' Personality Type: Dark Empaths

In more recent discussion around personality psychology, a new term has emerged: dark empaths. This personality type, borrowing some aspects from the traditional personality type of empathy, combines these with darker aspects often associated with narcissism and psychopathy that uniquely challenges interpersonal relationships. According to Dr. Sarah Davies and many other experts, dark empaths are even worse than narcissists: they are manipulative but caring and empathetic at the same time. In this article, we are going to discuss the characteristics of dark empaths, how to identify them, and tactics for protection against them.

New 'Monstrous' Personality Type: Dark Empaths

Understanding Dark Empathy

Dark empaths have high emotional intelligence intertwined with manipulative propensity. Dark empaths share commonalities with the traditional concept of an empath who uses their emotion insight to help others while serving as a source of comfort. Unlike this, the dark empaths use this insight for gaining advantages, and, in return, they have a unique quality, enabling them to play cunning games in social situations; this indeed leaves others drained emotionally or totally confused.

Major Characteristics of Dark Empaths

Manipulative Tendency

Dark empaths are masters of manipulation. They use techniques like gaslighting and guilt-tripping to regulate others' behavior and emotions. This sensitivity to the feelings of those around them aids them in exploiting vulnerabilities easily.

Wicked Sense of Humor

They have a wicked sense of humor. They utilize sarcasm and jokes that belittle and humiliate others. Such behavior makes people uneasy in social situations but can conceal their nefarious intentions.

Emotional Detachment

New 'Monstrous' Personality Type: Dark Empaths

Though dark empaths can deeply understand others' feelings, they often stand at an emotional distance from others. Such detachment can be seen as a defense against becoming vulnerable but also contributes to them bearing unresolved anger and trauma.

Self-Criticism Inclination

Dark empaths can be more self-critical compared to standard narcissists because they are keenly conscious of people's perceptions of them. This intrapsychic struggle sets for them a vicious cycle of hate for themselves, encouraging their manipulative activities.

Outgoing Charm

Many dark empaths are extroverted and socially skilled. In this case, it's really hard to notice their manipulating personas before they have done significant damage.

Exploiting Vulnerabilities

Because of their high cognitive empathy, they find weaknesses in others around them and usually tend to form toxic relationships.

Lack of Guilt

Dark empaths do not feel guilt or remorse over their actions, and this lets them manipulate with reckless abandon and without worrying about the emotional reaction of others.

How to Identify a Dark Empath

Since they are charming as well as socially adept, it can be pretty tough to spot a dark empath. Here are some indicators that you might be interacting with someone who is:

Frequent Gaslighting: If someone constantly makes you question your perceptions or feelings, they might be using gaslighting techniques.

Feeling of Guilt: If you begin to feel guilty for setting boundaries or saying 'no', it might be a tactic to manipulate you

Contradictory Behavior: Dark empaths bounce from being charming to cold, so you may end up confused about your relationship.

Over the Top Flattery with Added Insult: They may lavish you with flattery but then shoot you down through veiled stabs or sarcasm.

Defending Against Dark Empaths

If you feel you are dealing with a dark empath, consider the following advice:

Define Your Lines: Define strong lines as to what you will tolerate and what you will not. Be direct in telling them.

Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off in your interactions with someone, trust your gut feelings rather than dismissing them.

Be Cautious on Personal Matters: Careful not to share personal information which could be used against you later.

Build Strong Support Structures: Spend much time surrounded by friends or family who can offer a perspective and help you regain your self-esteem.

Educate Yourself. Knowing the characteristics and tendencies of dark empaths will give you the awareness of where manipulative mechanisms might be.

New 'Monstrous' Personality Type: Dark Empaths

Conclusion

Dark empaths represent a complex personality type that blends traditional empathic abilities with darker elements often associated with manipulation and deceit. Understanding their characteristics and knowing how to identify them can go a long way in helping people protect themselves from potential emotional harm. As the conversations about mental health continue to change, addressing the influence of dark empathy builds a foundation for healthier interpersonal relationships.

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By being cognizant of the importance of a mentally and physically healthy life, individuals take their stride towards betterment that is less likely to be compromised by someone like dark empaths.